SEX TALK 2: WEDDING NIGHT

Who cares about whetger there was enough jollof rice at the recepetion????

You have spent all your life waiting.

Now he has married you…and everyone expects you to do it on the first night

If you have never done it before, you are scared!

If you have done it before with him , you are just happy that you are now not committing sin anymore…

How did your wedding night go?

How did you prepare for the night?

What did you take for the honey moon?

How did hubby face his first challenge? scared, cautious, praying , slept off, gentle….how?

Pls share with us

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24 Comments

  1. Olami

    Hmm hubby thought he could enter and ended up spilling semen all over me. Wasn’t funny and it took another week to do the do.
    We petted sha and it was lovely I would stop and ask so we are married? And touch my ring to be sure. The forbidden fruit had finally become lawful.

  2. Stacey

    No special feeling for me. We had done it a few times before. The guilt feeling had subsided by the time we got wedded. But sincerely, I wish I waited till the wedding night. Hmmm

  3. tee

    Hubby first time but not my first. As we got to the hotel room he was hard and wanted it but I was thirsty so told him to get water for me. When he came back I shower Alas hubby wasn’t aroused anymore, kissed, romance but nothing, as I was already tired I just slept off to be woken up with kiss, tried it and successful. Hubby told me he couldn’t sleep he quoted all the scriptures but realise I was just snoring on the bed and was not afraid just laughed him and said its just anxiety and stress. I believe wen he take a rest he will be okay. Its over 4 years now the rest is history.

  4. Sea

    First attempt on the night was difficult, thanks to a sister (in the Lord) who told me on our way back from reception to buy a cream like that. That cream was what we used on the second attempt and there was entrance.

    Since then it’s been joyous celebration

  5. AJI

    My Hubby was inexperience,he was even saying we should not do anything on wedding nite,we should still be praying, I agreed,thinking of what to do.I had to put him in the mood by bathing together on our wedding nite,although he it was not easy to penetrate we enjoyed it afterward.

  6. Lola

    We already agreed to do prayers on our first night. We’ve eaten the forbidden fruit together before the D day, but prayed for God’s mercy. So we prayed , sleep and do the needful in the morning.

  7. Sea

    First attempt was not successful, thanks to a sister (in the Lord) who already told us while leaving the reception to buy a cream like that.
    After the unsuccessful first attempt, we both slept off only to be awakened by Bro for the Jerusalem journey. He was even the one that remembered the cream, applied it on both entrance and ….

    It’s been joyous celebration since.

  8. Elixir

    We were both first timers, but unlike husby I had read some books while preparing for the D-day. I had also told him that I wouldn’t want to have the first experience on a hotel bed. So the first night, we said a few words of prayer of thanks and bathe together, then caresses here and there. By the time we got home, the struggle began, the first attempt wasn’t successful, I was nervous and he was pitying his bride. Within the week sha, we were able to breakthrough. I cried o cos it was painful but his affection covered all. Your
    dear sis is now a pro.

  9. Elixir

    We were both first timers, but unlike husby I had read some books while preparing for the D-day. I had also told him that I wouldn’t want to have the first experience on a hotel bed. So the first night, we said a few words of prayer of thanks and bathe together, then caresses here and there. By the time we got home, the struggle began, the first attempt wasn’t successful, I was nervous and he was pitying his bride. Within the week sha, we were able to breakthrough. I cried o cos it was painful but his affection covered all. Your
    dear sis is now a pro.

  10. AyanfeAde

    As a virgin that got married in her late 20s, I was so so afraid of our wedding night cos of the do do. We planned spending our first night on our matrimonial bed, we got home around 1am cos we has to travel for over 7 hours home. On getting home, looked at hubby, noticed he was for my busy. I then quickly put off my cloth, enters bathroom to put of the remaining undies, then closed the door more tightly but not too long whenthe soap leather was all over me, he came into the bathroom n I felt like fainting….. Hubby encouraged me there n even till we are out of the bathroom. I quickly rushed to get my cothe but he grapped me and told me we are now married. Can’t be ashamed. Then we embarked on the Jeru trip. Didn’t get through until over 1 week though not completely.I cried so hard, was encouraged by hubby but the pain was more than what i could bear. Cried like a baby…..but at last, looking back, It’s worth the wait.

  11. Olori

    We were both first timers, but hubby have read alot and we both have talked about sex before getting married so it was not really awkward for me undressing before him. He was gently and wanted to stop cos it was quite painful for me but I encouraged him and he entered that night.
    Was happy we succeed the first night cos my period came Sunday morning.
    It’s being beautiful so far…..

  12. Ayomi

    We had both done the do before the wedding and looked forward to doing it legally but oko iyawo refused to leave his guests saying we had to be perfect hosts.

    i jejely sneaked away and crashed around 2am. Didn’t do anything tillthe second night.

  13. Pearl

    We both married as virgins, went to the hotel that night, we were both tired but I was sure hubby’s tiredness flew out through the window. He undressed me and we stepped into the bathroom together, he was hard, we had no lubricant at hand, he tried to be gentle as much as possible but it was painful for me, no penetration at all, we tried on Sunday morning before church and it felt as if they axed my body, during honeymoon sha, we came through and we have been okay since then

  14. Pearl

    We both married as virgins, went to the hotel that night, we were both tired but I was sure hubby’s tiredness flew out through the window. He undressed me and we stepped into the bathroom together, he was hard, we had no lubricant at hand, he tried to be gentle as much as possible but it was painful for me, no penetration at all, we tried on Sunday morning before church and it felt as if they axed my body, during honeymoon sha, we came through and we have been okay since then,halleluyah

  15. Rare

    There was no sex that night o, we were just too tired but in the middle of the night ghen ghen reality dawn on virgin Mar, start remembering the different unsolicited lectures on sex..was painful during the first few months but now a pro!

  16. Adele

    As we left the reception I looked back at my mum waving at our receding car….I suddenly felt sad but hubby was beaming and just touching me excitedly…..fast forward to the hotel….I changed codedly and tied a towel….on my way to the bathroom hubby gently pulled the towel off from behind….to say I was shy/embarassed is to say the least but we took our bath together and he wanted to do it in the bath tub I said a big No….the logistics would have been weird for a first timer…..we finally made it to the bed but after foreplay and fingering it was still too painful to penetrate….I got worried but hubby was patient and we went to sleep……we tried again in the morning with hubby kissing me to prevent me from screaming…..finally breakthrough ….bled slightly for about 2 weeks each time we made love but it was worth the wait.

  17. Glory

    Whaooo, a night I will never forget in a hurry…hubby said we should pray and we spent the night holding hands and praying until I slept off. The following day i was on my montly cycle and We have to wait two weeks to consummate the marriage after I had threatened him…. But to God be the Glory all was well.

  18. Wura

    My comment is a question please. The first time I had sex was on my wedding night, but no blood came out but penetration was difficult. I became worried but hubby became much more worried and still mentions it till today. Is it possible that a virgin has no hymen?

  19. Wow!!!wedding night for a first timer like me was a mixture of fear and inner excitement. I was shy and my hubby had to remind me that we are now husband and wife. Penetrating wasn’t easy and hubby too a first timer was actually searching for the door and spilled all over my body. But we later got through and it has been fun all the way.
    Its nine fruitful years

  20. Me and hubby

    We had it before the wedding night but thank God the guilt was not there anymore after the wedding. But, I felt more romantic and enjoyed making love with him as my husband on the wedding night. I made the move and following day we travelled for the honeymoon which was more exciting. Wow!!!! 14 years now and we are still growing in Christ. Thank God.

  21. LAX

    If I hear sey shame catch me. Something I have been waiting for. It was my first time. As expected we prayed and we got down to business. Make I no lie, we no remember baff. I can’t say he succeeded in penetrating fully the first time but I saw a little blood. Before his friends returned to the hotel room, we don finish the introductory part. Infact i was wearing hubby’s shirt without my pant. My pant was beside the bed on the floor and i was trying desperately to use the blanket to cover. Not sure if his friend noticed though. Lools. Chai ds thing sweet. E dey totori my body. Na JJC I be then but now my hubby sef dey duff him cap for him. It’s a serious business.

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