DID YOU SAY ORGASM?

You know when people talk, you just look at them like..what are they talking about…its because you have never really been there.

A lot of women fake it!

Men cant fake it..thank goodness, you will catch them easily!

What exactly is ORGASM?

How do you know when you have it?

Is it for everyone?

How can you get it?

What can affect whether you get it or not?

Can you get multiple? Are there different styles that may help you reach orgasm easily?

Have you faked it before? If yes , why?

Lets talk about this mysterious feeling that all women crave!!!!!

25 Comments

    1. Omolara

      There should be more of foreplay before your husband penetrates you. He should play with your teats, clit more. You may even climax before he penetrates, you can do it.

  1. Royalty

    Oh that feeling of ecstasy that you can’t really explain. You just know that’s it happening with all the jerking and heavy moaning and contractions down there,it can’t be mistaken for something else. For me,I get there when I have double stimulation ie hubby sucking my boobs and pounding at d same time mostly in missionary or chair position..and yes I have faked it once or twice when I was not really up for the whole deal but had to oblige and when the pressure from hubby’s weight got so much on my bloated tummy. I think getting this feeling has to do with ones mindset and the style. The Lord is good Sha. For creating that kind of feeling..

  2. olori lafin

    Mine doesn’t like shining the plate o, the only day I forced him to do it…….i soo much enjoyed it, is saying that its not godly. But he can suck the boo for Africa.
    About orgasm I still need to be more enlightened. Thank God for tooto/pennis

  3. Anon

    Orgasm is the sweet sensation u feel all over u, it comes at the peak of sexual pleasure, like pp said, it can’t be mistaken for anything else,
    I think almost everyone can have so long u get to know ur soft spots
    How to get it? just know what works for you!I have never gotten an orgasm during penile thrusts, but I get it when boobs are sucked and the clit is fingered, I was circumcised, so what we do is he sucks and fingers and takes me THERE, then once I come he enters quickly and pound away while I continue the moaning and sweet nonsense talks, by this time it will have become fake cos I am no longer enjoying it but can i really call it fake, the fact that i enjoy a round sex turns him on and sets him high so i enjoy the fact that i am making him enjoy it, and after those type of sex en, if it was in the morning he will be calling me all through the day, if it was in the night, he will touch me lovingly in his sleep and smile even while unconscious and he will slleeeeep like a baby. did I say he will do all that I ask him to do and look forward to the next time we will have it,
    when I am not happy, or I am tired or he wants sex and didn’t take me to the heavens first I don’t get it
    I have never gotten more than once per time, i only ever got two in 24 hrs,
    The only style that takes me there is Missionary style, but if he takes me there with missionary style, we will explore other styles and u won’t ever know I am faking the moans
    Have I faked it before? yes o, my show of sexual excitement excites him, sooooo i show it, scream it, clutch him,claw him and he… pounds on, screams please don’t kill me now, when he is through he will be sweating soo much and to go freshen up will almost be a problem, he will keep saying oti pa mi o. Please my people is this not worth all the faking? ( thank goodness I am anon o)

  4. Pleasant

    Before I resigned I have reached orgasm severally. Infact if I embark on Jerusalem trip thrice I reach orgasm twice.
    Orgasm sends vibration down my whole body. It sometimes feels like one is partially electrocuted, I scream and moan loudly most times my mouth gets covered.

  5. Elixir

    Oh orgasm! The peak of sexual pleasure, it’s Indescribable, so sweet and comforting. I get there most times before hubby. He doesn’t have to enter before I do. We usually caress, fondle with his penis as he touches my vagina and everywhere possible, kissing passionately simultaneously. By the time Im getting close to this big O…, I will be well lubricated. So he takes his time, to caress my boobs, sometimes he sucks them, oh my! Special ringtones meant for this time alone start flowing, he presses on the more holding me tight and woooah Im there.
    Then the pathway to Jerusalem would have been widely opened, he slides in without any hitch and the banging begins till he ejaculates. It’s so sweet. Infact typing this at work is setting the mood o. Make I quickly chat him up to get set for the ‘do’ tonyt. mummyB na u say make I explain o

  6. My beautiful self

    Orgasm… I have never reached it through penetration.. maybe I was close to it once, I can’t remember now. It’s actually difficult for me to reach orgasm even with all the caressing, so I have to make a conscious effort to put my mind into the foreplay. Hubby tries and constantly wants to satisfy me, but sometimes, I am just not interested, possibly because of circumcision. The few times I get there, it could be quite pleasurable and the feeling would do my body giz giz..lol. My mood is a major determinant on whether I get it or not. Sometimes when I look forward to it, an unpleasant action/event especially from hubby would just turn me off, unfortunately, he doesn’t know most of the time, and he wonders why I can’t be interested. I just switch off, and ask him to do his thing jare. I have never experienced multiple orgasms, in fact, the feeling is so strong that I don’t want to experience it twice at a close range. I don’t fake orgasam, but sometimes when hubby tries so hard and I can’t get it and he wants to be discouraged, I just encourage him to go on with his acts. Sometimes, I wish it could be better though, especially when sex is not a common affair with the nature of hubby’s work.

    1. Tee baby

      Orgasm is the moment during sexual inter course when d feeling of sexual intercourse is so strong and u feel like woooooo,saying all those sweet nonsense. I reach orgasm most times when my boobs are licked and my buttocks or virginal caressed,but if this does not work, then we go for the missionary style and I will be in charge, then the feeling is like pleassseeeee,don’t stop. Hubby enjoys it sometimes when I take charge. But when I am not in the mood, I fake orgasm just to make him do hin thing and leave me alone. He takes charge and do doggy or any other style that will make him fine.

  7. MummyP

    Hmmm “Orgasm” . Its so difficult for me to reach orgasm. If we make love ten times I might get “there” just once.. I admire people DAT reach orgasm even without penetration.
    I fake it a lot of times just to make hubby happy.
    If I have to reach orgasm. I just have to help myself. For me to get there, I have to be on top of him and pound him really hard.

    Chaii but the feeling cannot be explained mbok…its heavenly.. The sweetness and rush of hormones. Just like electric shock..the whole body will start vibrating instantly. Body go just begin do person Totori…totori

    I think the mindset and mood plays a good role in helping one reach the promised land.

    I pray to experience it more. Because for God to bless us with husbands. He wants us to enjoy it all..

  8. to me

    Mood is key but once i’m in the mood, its guaranteed. it took 4 years to get it but once i did. I sit on him and thats always a guarantee.

    The dimension depends on mood as well as sufficient foreplay

  9. Tee baby

    Orgasm is the moment during sexual inter course when d feeling of sexual intercourse is so strong and u feel like woooooo,saying all those sweet nonsense. I reach orgasm most times when my boobs are licked and my buttocks or virginal caressed,but if this does not work, then we go for the missionary style and I will be in charge, then the feeling is like pleassseeeee,don’t stop. Hubby enjoys it sometimes when I take charge. But when I am not in the mood, I fake orgasm just to make him do hin thing and leave me alone. He takes charge and do doggy or any other style that will make him fine.

  10. Adele

    I agree…..orgasms are the height of sexual pleasure….I feel blessed cos I can get multiple within one sexual intercourse. I think with time you would know what actions get you there and hubby will too( for me it’s nibbling, sucking or caressing the nipples and/or clitoris, or pounding really deep and hard). Also when he’s doing something right I encourage him not to stop till I climax. Usually I get 1 before penetration and another during or after. After one orgasm I need a few mins to cool down before we build up to the next and hubby gets it…..I think it’s a dance, a rhythm of some sort. I don’t think I have ever had to fake it, there are very few times i don’t get there but it’s usually when I’m too lazy/ tired to put on the effort. I think it takes love and selflessness from both partners to satisfy each other.

  11. Funke

    I reach orgasm mostly when am on top and his hands are on my boobs. Orgasm is a very pleasant pleasure you feel during intecourse that can not really be explained. It’s just like the climax.My mood often affects it too. I orgasm once in a while when l am not interested or tired and wants to satisfy hubby.

  12. Crystal

    I don’t do quickies because it does not take me there. It took I and hubby some years to get our styles right but today, I reach orgasm without stress if I am able to put the effort.
    Yes, I have had to fake orgasm is several times so that he will let me be

  13. Howiwish

    I have never had one even before getting married no matter how hard I tried. I got married really late because of this and have come to accept it. So, yes I fake it so hubby is happy.

  14. BUNMI

    I reach orgasm mostly when am on top and his hands are on my boobs, sucking or turning me on. Also, when my hubby is right on top. The whole body will start vibrating instantly., just like electric shock. I come on one or twice depending on us.

  15. BUNMI

    My orgasm starts mostly when am on top and his hands are on my boobs, sucking or turning me on. Also, when my hubby is right on top. The whole body will start vibrating instantly., just like electric shock. I come on one or twice depending on us.

  16. Cupidbaby

    Orgasm is the height of sexual pleasure, its a moment I enjoy so much and most times it is not achieved through penetration. Hubby knows what works magic on my body, which is sucking my boobs and fingering my clit, so the first one is achieved during foreplay. Multiple orgasm? Oh yes several times, especially when you have a husband who is always away on business trips , by the time oga comes back am already prepared. No hard or fast rule about it, just know what works for you. For some people it could be during foreplay and some might be serious hard banging but of course our response to sex also helps in reaching that Jerusalem.

  17. Hope

    Missionary style is d deal for me, with fingering(softly) n boobs sucking. I get multiple orgasms once in a while wen am really horny, then I want hubby’s part strong n hard. I’ve faked it to please him b4 but not now. We discussed it n wen am not in d mood I just allow him to do his thing. Orgasm cannot be explained fully, it’s beta experienced… The mind set contributes to d success or otherwise of d act. I pray that all jewels experience this out of the world feeling… Let’s not get to heaven n some will feel they were left out of something great here… Lol

  18. Light

    Wow this cracked me up😀😀Let’s not get to heaven n some will feel they were left out of something great here… Lol. Orgasm is a pleasurable experience more like a job well done it’s cool when we both climax but not so cool when I’m left hanging😭 thanks for bringing it up mama Omobola a lot of marriages are having issues because of this

  19. Early in My marriage I fake it a lot to please hubby,but after ten years I discovered a hand size machine that can truly make me reach O after using it for sometimes I realized I had to be very very very very relaxed and have a lot of foreplay to even get close. Though hubby is trying but I with me having some negative mindset towards him for sometime now I’ve not even smelt orgasm with him for almost a year but with My other thing, every time.

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